
          POINTS 
            TO PONDER
          "A 
            woman is sixteen times more effectively intelligent and
            more sensitive than a man, and she can handle all walks of
            intelligence better than any man. Man is given the physical, and
            woman is given the intelligence to balance it out." -- Yogi Bhajan
          "From 
            a woman, man is born.
            Within a woman, man is conceived.
            To a woman a man is engaged and
            married. A woman becomes a man's friend.
            Through a woman, the future generations come.
            When a man's woman dies, he seeks another woman.
            To a woman he is bound. From a woman, kings are born.
            From woman, a woman is born.Without a woman, there would
            be no man at all. How can a woman be called bad?" -- Guru Nanak          
          "Given the positive and  growing public awareness of  Sikhs,
Sikh women manifestly express  their parity with Sikh men when
they tie turban, thereby advocating gender equality. Without
the turban   the perception persists that Kaurs are not    true Sikhs.
Singhs are perceived to be   the genuine, even dominant gender.
Women wearing a turban makes gender equality more apparent.
Sikh women make a powerful statement about gender equality
when they tie turban. It is a graceful and effective way of  putting    Sikhs
and other communities on notice. It says, "We are who we are in support
of everyone's human rights irrespective of gender." -- DualityOptics.com
          
          "From 
            a woman all men are born. How then can any
            man degrade any woman?" -- Hari Kaur Khalsa
           
   
          
          OPEN LETTER TO MOTHERS...THE FIRST TEACHERS
          
            Those who shall not learn to obey shall never be
              in a position to command. -- The Siri Singh Sahib
          "Given the positive and  growing public awareness of  Sikhs,
Sikh women manifestly express  their parity with Sikh men when
they tie turban, thereby advocating gender equality. Without
the turban   the perception persists that Kaurs are not    true Sikhs.
Singhs are perceived to be   the genuine, even dominant gender.
Women wearing a turban makes gender equality more apparent.
Sikh women make a powerful statement about gender equality
when they tie turban. It is a graceful and effective way of  putting    Sikhs
and other communities on notice. It says, "We are who we are in support
of everyone's human rights irrespective of gender." -- DualityOptics.com
          Create dependable 
            children, not dependent children. Give your children the
            basic values to face their own tomorrows, not be blinded by yours. Make them
            proper personalities, not helpless puppets. Position them for success; don't
            paralyze them with the commotion of your emotions. -- The Siri Singh Sahib
          The basic aspect of you as woman is not in your sensuality and in your dramas. 
            You are not only the givers of life, you are the manufacturers of character. Whatever
            character you will give to your children, that shall be their future. -- The Siri Singh Sahib
          OUR YOUTH DESERVE LEADERSHIP TRAINING
            New Mexico Military Institute can provide this.
            A two-year leadership program is available.
          Sat 
            Nam, Khalsa ji! I am a passionate proponent of a more equitable balance 
            between our collective Saint-Soldier mind set as Sant 
              Sipahi. In this context I strongly urge Khalsa parents, especially 
            our women,  the first teachers of our children, to consider the following points.
           ) I urge you to consider enrolling our  children at the New 
            Mexico Military Institute, located in Roswell, New Mexico. My 
            kids graduated high school with honors at NMMI in the early '80s, 
            the first children of Sikh 
              Dharma to attend a military school in America. The Siri 
                Singh Sahib expressed  pleasure upon observing 
            cadet training when he visited NMMI in 1983. He advised us then that he 
            would have enrolled his own children at NMMI  if he had known of its existence. Another group of  children 
            who attended  school in India later attended NMMI in the early '90s.
) I urge you to consider enrolling our  children at the New 
            Mexico Military Institute, located in Roswell, New Mexico. My 
            kids graduated high school with honors at NMMI in the early '80s, 
            the first children of Sikh 
              Dharma to attend a military school in America. The Siri 
                Singh Sahib expressed  pleasure upon observing 
            cadet training when he visited NMMI in 1983. He advised us then that he 
            would have enrolled his own children at NMMI  if he had known of its existence. Another group of  children 
            who attended  school in India later attended NMMI in the early '90s. 
          

            Sikh Chaplain, M.S.S. Hari Singh Bird, addresses  Sikh cadets in front of the NMMI chapel, 1992.
          New Mexico Military Institute offers an outstanding two year college option for your sons and daughters after they complete their 
            time at Miri Piri Academy. For those families for which MPA is not an option, NMMI has an excellent four year high school college prep program in addition to their two year 
              college program. New Mexico Military Institute has been ranked No. 5 on a list of the nation’s top 50 community colleges by an independent organization, i.e., TheBestSchools.org, which has described the Roswell, New Mexico school as the “only state-supported, coeducational, military boarding school in the United States.” The school offers college prep, a four-year high school and a two-year junior college. See NMMI 
                Strategic Measures Statistics. 
          Each of the former Sikhi students/graduates 
            of NMMI provide a testament to the advantages of attending NMMI, which 
            include a rigorous and challenging lifestyle, camaraderie and fellowship, 
            and outstanding leadership 
              training especially, along with NMMI's excellent scholastic program. 
            This experience prepared them for additional university training, and exciting 
            careers all over  the world. NMMI is the only American prep school I know 
            that has a history of accommodating the Sikhi lifestyle, i.e., sadhana, kesh, turban, sipahi training, and vegetarian diet. And it is an excellent environment for Sikhi youth to learn leadership 
            and soldiering skills for which the Siri Singh Sahib was a passionate 
            proponent. 
          The NMMI program offers MPA students and other Sikh youth 
            a unique and reasonably cost-effective opportunity to transition 
            from the Indian program into the American experience as a unit, and the obvious advantage of continued 
            bonding  with  their  peers. See NMMI 
              Admissions, or click admissions@nmmi.edu, or call 800-421-5376. 
            
             ) I urge you to support a resurgence of the Women's Close Order Drill Team, about which the Siri 
              Singh Sahib frequently commented, "If you cannot walk together, 
            you cannot work together." He initiated this training back in 
            the late '70s  at Khalsa Women's Training Camp in addition 
            to the Women's Select 
              Rifle Drill Team and Firearms 
                Training.
) I urge you to support a resurgence of the Women's Close Order Drill Team, about which the Siri 
              Singh Sahib frequently commented, "If you cannot walk together, 
            you cannot work together." He initiated this training back in 
            the late '70s  at Khalsa Women's Training Camp in addition 
            to the Women's Select 
              Rifle Drill Team and Firearms 
                Training.
           ) I urge you to reflect on the Siri Singh Sahib's words, "Human 
            is a blend of saint and soldier; this is a complete person. If you 
            are not a soldier your sainthood will be kicked around. If you are 
            only a soldier, not a saint, you will start kicking others around."
) I urge you to reflect on the Siri Singh Sahib's words, "Human 
            is a blend of saint and soldier; this is a complete person. If you 
            are not a soldier your sainthood will be kicked around. If you are 
            only a soldier, not a saint, you will start kicking others around."
           Again, our youth deserve leadership training going forward. I know of no readily available source of formal leadership  
            training available to our Sikh youth other than the New Mexico Military 
            Institute. 
          Your thoughts?
          Humbly, 
          Mukhia Singh Sahib Hari Singh 
            Bird Khalsa --
          FUTURE FIRST TEACHERS
          
          
            
            Pages And Points  To Ponder
          See Partners Not Parents. See Sikh Tribes. See Turban Is Bana.  See The 'Turbanators'. See Duality Optics.  See The Essence of Kaur. See The Turban Is A Bigot Detector. See Broad Points. See But Where Are The Women? See The Role And Status of Sikh Women. See U.S. Sikhs Want Women To Sing At  Golden Temple. See Bibi Kiranjot Kaur On Women's Rights. See A Muslim Woman Teaches Kirtan. See Women Are Not Allowed To Play Kirtan. See Sikhism And Homosexuality. See Why  Do You Not See Any Sikh Women? See Sikh Identity Is For Men Only. See When Will Sikh Men Stand Up. See Sikh Women's Issues. See Women And The Sikh Religion. See My Response To The Sikh Minister Survey. See How To Make Yoga Classes LGBT Friendly. See Punjabi Sikh Optics Do Matter. See What's With Sikhs And Gender Equality?  See Circumstance. See The Woman Pope. See Women Are Much More Than This. See The Question of Authority Within Sikhism. See Should Mixed Faith Marriage In Sikh Temples Be Banned? See Balvinder Kaur Saund. See Maharani Jind Kaur:  Saint Soldier. See Sudha Kaur Chopra On Gurdwara Security. See Why Don't Sikh Women Tie Turban? See Life According To Hari Nam Kaur. See I Fight Like A Girl. See Dastaar For Sikh Women. See The Turban Is A Crown.   See Life According To Joan Baez. See Menstruation From A Woman's Perspective. See Granny Stops Burglar. See Life According To Andrea Mitchell. See 'Sikh' And Ye Shall Find. See The Story Behind My Turban. See We Are We, We Are One. See Sikhs Shine. See Women Wimps Or Warriors. See Women Warriors.  See Jai Jagdeesh Kaur's Ad Guray Nameh. See Refuse To Be A Victim Seminar. See Amazon Women. See How The Marines Transform 
  Me Into We. See Memories of Khalsa Women's Rifle Drill Team.  See Definitions.  See Sikh Definitions.  See Glossary of Sikh Terms. See Stop Killing The Future of Kaurs. See Greetings, Names and Titles. See Life According To Hoda Katebi.  See How We Define Tribalism. See GurdwaraSecurity.com.  See Gurdwara Security Toolkit.
          

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